Adult ADD: Speak New Languages By Tellman Knudson And Stephanie Frank At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

Did you know that people with ADD actually have an evolved brain that’s the next step in where our entire race as human beings is going? That's one theory about ADD. But it makes sense. With everything going on in the world--the technology, medicine, business... everything--doesn't it make perfect sense that people are going to need quicker minds?

Never use ADD as an excuse for why your life stinks. Don’t even infer it. Whether or not ADD is an affliction is beside the point. You can't let the fact that you have ADD destroy your self-image and when you destroy your self-image, you destroy your ability to accomplish anything of consequence, especially maintaining a powerful, strong, unique, and progressive relationship with someone. ADD can be your best asset!.

When many people decide that they’re going to have better relationships, they say, “Why do I have to be the one to change? Why can’t somebody else change?” Today you get a choice. When you have ADD, you can decide to master yourself or you can keep on trying to control everybody else.

When you try to control everybody else, guess what? It usually doesn’t work.

The choice is to either make a change or make a whole lot of changes and be willing to make changes for the rest of your life, in order to stay in strong, healthy relationships or stay the way you are, letting your ADD try to control everyone, and allow things to fall apart.

When we talk about making a change, we’re not talking about changing who you are permanently to be something else, like if you’re left-handed right now, suddenly you should become right-handed. Or, just because you're ADD, there's no way you can become non-ADD. We’re not talking about that, not about permanent kinds of changes.

What we’re talking about is using your innate ADD ability to shift, to model, and to work in different modes to simply align yourself at a particular time within a particular relationship to make the relationship go more smoothly. We’re talking about a skill.

If you went out and you did a 12-week French intensive and you learned how to be fairly fluent in French, and right after that, what if you went and learned Chinese and then you learned another language and all of a sudden you know 24 languages.

Because you developed those skills to be able to literally shift gears depending on who you were talking to in order to have better communication, better interaction, more positive back and forth and ultimately have everything run more smoothly and more profitably, either financially or whatever you’re trying to accomplish in the situation, would you be any less you?

No, of course not.

You’d be more.

If you’ve ever been on a cruise and you pull into a port of call in a place where they speak a foreign language, it is so cool to be able to converse with the merchants in that foreign language to buy a souvenir. Think about it, it takes three times as long to make your purchase and it takes a lot more frustration and a lot more energy. Not to mention when you can speak the local language, most of the time you get a better deal.

Try translating that idea into your last negative or abrasive conversation with your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or your wife. You get a better deal out of the situation if you know how to talk in other people’s languages.

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