The One Magic Word That Will Help You Attract Women

Women are complex creatures and all men know this. As men, we are constantly baffled as to what women are thinking. This is particularly true in the realm of love and dating. It seems as if men are just wired differently than women. But, if there is one thing I have learned about women, it is that women are attracted to men who act confidently around women. Yes, the magic word that will help you attract women is “confidence.”

Now let’s clarify what type of confidence attracts women. First of all, confidence is behaving relaxed and without fear around women. For many men, that is their greatest weakness. When around women, many men lose their composure. They get very nervous, they start to sweat and their mind goes blank. Basically, they act shy and timid. Women hate that kind of behavior because in a primal way, it shows you are not a strong man worthy of being a suitable mate.

So, how do you act confident around women? Here are a few skills you need to master:

1. Make eye contact. Yes, this may sound scary but you have to do it. When you look into a woman’s eyes, it shows you are confident and not afraid of her. If you study men who are very successful with women, you will notice that they make a ton of eye contact with women. Women find this to be a turn-on. However, do not stare like a stalker. Look for 2-3 seconds and smile and then casually look away. Then look again.

2. Do everything you can to act comfortable and relaxed around women. Act as if you were just hanging out with a couple of your buddies. If you want some good role models for how to act relaxed around women, watch the movie “Wedding Crashers.” Look how comfortable Vince Vaughn and Owen Wilson act around women. They are not the least bit afraid of women and they just have fun. Confidence is an attitude of not being afraid. Master your feelings of fear around women and you have won 99% of the game.

3. Smile. Smiles are magic and many women have told me that they melt when a man smiles at them. You know how to smile right? Good! Starting doing it.

4. Tease. Yes, that’s right. Tease women in a fun playful way. Poke fun at them but do it nicely. Don’t be a jerk. When you tease a woman, it shows you are not afraid of her and it shows her that you are interested. If she smiles and teases back, she is interested. Now go for the phone number.

5. Ask the woman for her phone number and a day or two later, call and ask her out on a casual date. This is the difference between men that are successful with women and men that are not. Men who have the courage to ask women out get lots of dates. Men who are shy and timid do not ask women out and therefore, get to spend their nights home alone watching TV. Do you have the courage to ask a woman for her phone number? If you do, 50% of the time you will succeed. Think of ask for a phone number as the #1 test a women uses to judge if a man is confident. If a man does not have the courage to ask her out, then he does not have what it takes to be her boyfriend.