Developing Your "Inner Game" By Solace Swanson At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

One of the most important part of dealing with women and becoming the best person you can be is developing your "inner game". Inner game is encompasses a wide variety of things: your mindsets, how you react to think, thought processes, to name a few. You will probably read a lot of things written by other experienced pimp soldiers trying to explain to you what their current mindsets are and what goes through their heads but unless you have experience with the topic, you probably will have a difficult time trying to understand what the writer is going on about.

So you read all this material. Be unreactive. Girls are plentiful. Be your core, your self and don't give a damn what anyone else thinks of you. You feel good because you think after you've read that material that you've developed good inner game and nothing can shake your solid base. Then one girl doesn't open well. Another girl gives you a death stare as you approach. If you're strong enough, you continue on to your third or fourth approach. All with the same results. You start crumbling inside. What happened? You cry to yourself, "I thought my inner game was strong enough for this!".

Inner game isn't something that you can magic up out of thin air, or from hours of reading. It isn't a logical entity that you can just read about and develop. The concepts of inner game were developed from people who had experience with women and life in general. They had approached and dealt with so many women that an abundance mentality is cemented in their minds. So many people had rejected their approaches already that they just don't care what other people think of them. These concepts were borne through people with vast amounts of experience and passed down to people without the experience, so that they could benefit from other's work.

However, to know what these concepts really mean, you need an emotional understanding of the concepts, and this is gained from hours and hours of field experience. When you first start approaching women (after spending hours studying material), you logically understand that approaching women is really nothing and that you're not going to die, but your emotional circuitry kicks and screams at you to not approach because you might get hurt. You're strong and you approach anyway, and after a few approaches your emotional brain 'catches up' to your logic and starts realizing that approaching won't hurt you. After a while, you fully understand the inner game concept that approaching is easy. This goes with every other concept. This is the way you start to really understand things.

If you want to build your muscles, you have to exercise and push them to their limits. Socializing, inner strength and all of the concepts discussed regarding women, they're all written there for you to get started. But to get really good and to really understand the material, you need to get out and experience it. Take a risk and approach that woman. Lead her around confidently and take your rejections in stride. Every rejection gets you closer to your goal. Every rejection makes you stronger and more calibrated. With every rejection, you learn what not to do and your social skills improve.

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