How Can I Find Out If Someone is Married by Talking and Listening

How do I find out if someone is married? - I listen to what they tell me

You can become a human lie detector by learning how to talk to people, ask them the right questions and really listen to what they tell you. If someone is married but they don't want you to know then they will have to lie to you to keep the secret. All you have to do is detect the lies that you're being told. It isn't difficult once you understand the simple technique that anyone can learn. If they can lie about one thing then they can lie about not being married.

Ask lots of questions

Have a list of questions ready to ask your date whenever you are together or speak on the phone or Internet chat etc. Don't ask them all at once though or he might realize what you're doing and either back off or become extra cautious in what he tells you. You want to keep the conversations relaxed and natural for this to work properly.

You might want to write out a list of questions that you want to ask - make sure to leave the list at home when you're on a date. Pick one or two of them before you go out and make a point of working them into the conversation.

Ask him one or two things from this list when you talk:

* Is he married? You can come right out with it - If he has nothing to hide then he won't mind.
* What work does he do?
* What is his cell phone number?
* How old is he?
* Are there any children?
* What are his hobbies?
* Does he use a gym? If yes, which one?
* Has he ever been married before?
* Where does he live?
* Where was he born?
* What is his home phone number?
* Where does he work?

You can ask whatever questions you want. The list above is just to give you some ideas. The more questions you ask the easier it will be for you to detect any lies and it can be fun asking questions. The trick is to listen and remember the answers that he gives. The first chance that you get you should write down the answers so that you can look back at them later.

Be patient. Sooner or later a liar will give themselves away

The more questions you ask and the more time that passes the more likely it will be that your new lover will slip up and give the game away. You see it's actually very difficult to tell convincing lies and carry them off over a period of time. I can't remember conversations that I had yesterday so remembering what lie I might have told a week ago would be very hard. Only the most accomplished liars and confidence tricksters would be able to do this effectively.

By making notes of the answers you are getting it will become glaringly obvious to you when you've been told a lie because something won't add up. "Last week you told me you did this but now your telling me you did something else" - Know what I mean? If he can lie to you about this then he might have lied about not being married too.

How can I find out if someone is married for certain?

You can do a background check on someone to find out whether they are married, have a criminal record or arrest warrants, bankrupt and a whole load of other interesting information about them. This can be done in a few short minutes online if you think that you're being lied to or you don't want to waste time with questions and answers. In fact I think that you should do a background check on anyone before you get serious with them whether you think that they are lying to you or not. It's confidential so why not do it.