4 Reasons Why We're Afraid of Pursuing Our Ex's By Tristan Lee At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

Sometimes after we beak up, when they don't come back to us, we think what would happen if we tried to go after our ex? However, when we gather enough courage to do it, something stops us. We just can't... Here are four reasons why we're afraid of pursing our ex's.

1) Afraid of Rejection

After you've broken up, you might still have some resentment, some pain, some anger, and some depression. If you go back and try to get back with your ex, they may not want to get back together again. Thus you're basically asking yourself if all this "build up" and "plan of action" of getting back your ex is even worth the trouble of possibly causing more resentment, pain, anger and depression. I think not. Don't lose hope just yet though...

2) Our Dignity is at Stake

A friend once told me that even when we break up, the one thing we still have left is our dignity. What you do with from here on out is completely up to you. She had a point. You could easily risk all your dignity by digging a deeper hole down the middle if you decide to go and try to pursue your ex back. How do you save face after something like that? Don't lose hope just yet though...

3) Possibility of Distancing Yourself From Them Even More

Maybe your breakup was just a temporary one also know as "I think we should take a break." During these few days or few weeks needed to give your ex some space, you might of not been able to handle it. You may go and think of ways to "work things out" with them, but doing so might worsen the chances of you guys ever getting back together, not to mention distancing themselves further than they already have. Don't lose hope just yet though...

4) Don't Know What Steps to Take

Finally, you simply just don't know what to do. If you've ever been in this type of situation before, then this can pose a big problem. It would be pretty cool if you could just walk up to your ex and say, "Hey... let's stop the acting, we both know that you like still like me, and I, well, still have some feelings for you, so let's just cut the crap and get back together, okay?" The next thing you know your ex replies, "Sure why not babe I'm sorry..." If it were just this easy. Don't lose hope just yet though!

Fear is most likely going to be there no matter how bad things are. But the one thing that will always be there is this. If you never try, you'll never know. Even if you do try getting back your ex and things don't work out, not only will you have overcome your biggest fears, but you'll know the answer to pursuing or moving on. The worst thing that can happen is learning from your mistakes and now you can moving on with your life. So again, don't let these four common fears stop you from doing anything you want to do, and who knows, the chances of getting back your ex are not as bad as you think they are!

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