How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Without Making Him Hate You By Star Smith At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

Sandra anxiously pushes the buttons on her phone.

Two .. . five .. . three .. . eight.

She holds her breath as it rings. A male voice comes over the line. She recognizes it’s familiar warm tones. It’s him, her ex boyfriend, Josh. Her smile quickly fades as she realizes she’s reached his voicemail – again.

This is like, what? The tenth, eleventh time she’s called and left a message. Still, there’s been no return call from Josh. This isn’t like him at all. He used to always return her calls as soon as he could.

Okay. So they’re supposed to be broken up. He told her he wanted to see other people. It was a brief, but friendly exchange over coffee. Sandra only said “okay” because she was in shock. Sure, they’d been having a few problems, but she didn’t think they were bad enough to break up over. She didn’t really know what to say at the time.

But now, she had a bunch of things she needed to say to Josh. She had prided herself in being a great girlfriend, but now he wasn’t interested anymore. There must be something she can say to change his mind.

“Hello, Josh? It’s me, Sandra again. Just wanted you to know that I really need to talk to you. I know we can work things out if we just get together and talk, you know? I love you so much, and I don’t know why this is happening to us. There was no warning. You just .. . please, I wanna hear you say you love me. Please call me. You know I hate it when you don’t return my calls. Please, Josh. I just wanna make things better, okay?”

What is Sandra doing wrong?

She’s begging Josh to return her calls. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, then don’t do what Sandra is doing with Josh. What Josh is hearing on his end is an emotionally needy woman who won’t accept the fact that he doesn’t want to continue the relationship. Instead of making him call her, all Sandra is doing is making Josh feel really annoyed with her constant whining. There’s no way he’s ever going to return her call – except to tell her to quit bothering him.

What should you do in this situation?

Pick up the phone and calmly let your ex boyfriend know that you agree with his decision to take a break from your relationship right now. You realize that things aren’t as good as they could be between the both of you and that it’s best to spend some time apart. Wish him a great day (and mean it) and hang up.

What does this accomplish?

You won’t sound desperate like Sandra, for one thing. You’ll come off as calm and mature about the situation, which will be a relief to your ex. He’ll file your reaction away in his mind and be more open to talking to you down the road. Maybe even sooner than you think.

Yeah, but how does this help me get him back?

Oh, this is just the beginning of winning him back. You see, Sandra’s trying to force her way back into Josh’s life and she’s failing miserably. Stepping back and calmly accepting the situation is the first step of many that can eventually lead to a happy reunion with your man.

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