Thinking Like a Beautiful Woman

Every guy out there should try to put himself in a beautiful woman's shoes for a day. Take it easy. I'm not suggesting that you become a cross-dresser; only that you try to imagine what a beautiful woman's day is like.

Once you know what her day is like you will know how to distinguish yourself in her day and subsequently be able to make yourself "memorable".

Think about the last time that you saw a really attractive woman. You wanted to talk to her. But you didn't. I mean she was hot!

Now, ask yourself, did you ever think a day or two later, after one of these babe sitings happened, about where that particular woman might be and what she might be doing?

Here's an even better question for you. Did you stop to think about what the rest of her day was like after she walked by you?

There were probably twenty or more other men that saw her that day and they didn't have the nerve to talk to her either ... and the two or three that did?

Probability says that she has a boring job that she goes to everyday and the few guys that have enough nerve to talk to her offer one of the usual "Wow, you're beautiful" lines. She hears it a dozen times a day and she feels it a hundred times a day as men blankly stare at her as she passes.

It's a routine for her. It bores her!

Every guy has to ask himself whenever he sees a beautiful woman: "Should I bore her like the herd that is admiring her and the few clumsy would-be's that actually bark something at her? Or, should I intrigue and entertain her in a memorable way?"

I offer this to all you:

1) Most attractive women are BORED TO DISTRACTION by most men. One of the reasons for this is that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same thing: either nothing or stare glarey eyed and make some feeble attempt at a compliment.

2) Listen. You can't BORE a woman into feeling attracted to you. She most likely has a boring life like everyone else. If you act like one of the herd ... She will mentally tag you as such and you're not going to get any special attention. You are certainly not going to be introducing your trouser pole to her.

3) Start with the idea of NOT doing what other guys are likely to do/say.

So what are a couple things you might do?

It sounds harsh, but "nice" is for losers. No matter what she tells you, like every other woman, she doesn't want nice. Nice says "friend" to her. Do you want to be her friend?

If not, stop acting as though she will eventually see you as a lover if only you are nice enough for long enough.

You have got to entertain her. You have got to be interesting. You have to make her laugh. In short, you have to add some spice to her life?

What's a guy to do then?

It's really not that hard. Just don't do what all the others are doing. Instead of telling her how beautiful she is… tease her in a non-hurtful way.

The Unmade Bed Approach (see MACKnificent Strategies http://www.BestInfoFound.com) is a tease, for example. You are busting her about not making her bed when she wants the world to think she is actually very tidy.

She will find you both cocky & funny, which any MACK will tell you, is the ticket. The fact that you tuned her in clairvoyantly will be irresistible to her.

David DeAngelo, from Double Your Dating says a good attitude to have when meeting beautiful women is “Fate has put us in the same place; now let's see if you have a personality to match your looks. Then stir in a generous portion of Cocky and Funny, you're likely to do well.”

One of the things I am always suggesting to would-be MACKs is that when you first meet a woman that you want to see again, you have to leave PREMATURELY. That is the MACKest thing to do for a number of reasons.

Entertainers, especially stand-up comics, will tell you to always leave your audience wanting more. That way they will remember you. The same is true when you first meet a beautiful woman.

Excusing yourself after a quick interaction tells her that you are busy and in demand. It also says you are not desperate for female companionship. These are two traits women find very attractive.

This is also why I suggest giving her your number as opposed to asking for hers. She will find this consistent with a busy guy's image and it is non-threatening.

SHE gets to initiate the contact.

Another approach is to ask for her email address. But even this should be seen as an opportunity to tease her again: "I don't know you well enough yet to give you my phone number -- so how about we exchange email addresses first?"

Knowing how to approach women comes down to understanding the female psychology a bit. Once you know what motivates them it is surprisingly easy and things will start to fall into place. You will find yourself being successful with women that most guys just fantasize about from a distance.