Can a Stupid Communication Quiz Really Tell Your True Chances of Success? By Sri Hari At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

Probably not.

Humans are so flexible and can learn so fast that I do not think any predefined quiz can really gauge your full potential.

While saying this, I should point out an important fact.

Quiz can be a non-judgmental way for you to assess your own skill sets and if it has been created correctly, it can point out the direction for further improvement

There are many people looking for help in developing their personality and communication. Most of them start with the good intention of growing as a person but fail due to two main reasons.

1. They fail to Change the way they think

2. They Refuse to follow Advice (Even when they have paid for it)

They jump from one book/course to another, looking for a magic pill and feel frustrated when they do not get any results. It is easy to look at others and find faults but quite hard to look at your self and point out the mistakes, this is true for everyone, because we all are biased, especially about ourselves.

There is nothing wrong with such people; in fact, I was one for a very long time. After many years of frustration and thousands spent on books and course, I understood one fundamental need. If you really plan to change the way you think, behave, and respond, there is one golden rule to follow:

Be ready to change.

If you actually want to improve your life and really want a change the first thing you need to do is decide to learn new stuff and take action on that.

Many people who want to change spend a lot of time and money on getting advice but once they get the advice, they start to analyze the advice. This is a very big trap. If you took advice from a good, trustful person, do not second guess, do not analyze, just do it.

The more you analyze, the more paralyzed you will feel and more powerless you will become. By the time you decide to implement even one of the suggested ideas, you would have decreased it potential and planned your disappointment well in advance.

Here is my 3step approach for a Better Success in implementing successful habits.

1. Identify your areas of improvement by a Communication Quiz.

Make sure you answer the communication truthfully and honestly. This is how you can get the best results

2. Decide how much time and money you can spend on your Self Growth.

Do not waste your time in reinventing the wheel. Find some shortcuts. Invest in good courses and Books. Just buying them will not help either; you also need to invest time in understanding and more importantly implementing it. I find it useful to jot down 2 or 3 action steps that I can take each week based on my reading or workshop and implement.

3. Stay the Course.

End of each week, I review my progress and take a course correction. You may miss out doing one or two things often. That is OK. It takes some time to learn the discipline. So do not beat yourself if you miss out. Just pick up from where you stopped and carry on. The act of not giving up means, you pick yourself up each time and keep moving forward.

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