Get Her Back - Make Your Ex Partner Remember the Good Times By Delissa Huapi At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

The one thing you can't take away is your memory. We all have good experiences, we all have bad experiences. Whatever they are, those memories are always with us, in our subconscious. Some more readily available than others, but they are always still there, lurking under our consciousness.

In any failed relationship, the most recent memories will usually be those of the things that caused the parting.

If you’ve decided that you are going to try and win her back, you need to discard these unpleasant memories, and bring back the more pleasant ones. The good times you had together, the fun things you did, the great places you went.

Keeping in touch

The first thing you must do to get into the position of being able to evoke these pleasant memories is to be in regular contact. Plan this carefully because you don’t want to make it look as though you’re crowding or pressurizing her.

Be creative

In order to carry out your strategy of re-awakening those fond memories, you must carefully consider your meeting places. Ideally you want to use venues that allow you to talk, and don’t blast you out, and of course, if you can meet somewhere you have been before, together, and have had good times...even better.

Once you’ve met up at your venue, get around to reminiscing about the good times you had together. Don’t be too obvious or heavy handed. Be subtle. Hopefully she will join in too and start to volunteer some of her own memories. If she does, congratulations, you’re half way there.

Keeping up appearances

Whenever you are out and about, make sure you look good. Also, make sure you look happy. This is a great way of reminding your ex of what she is missing out on and may start those rumblings of doubt.

Keep up a busy diary. It’s useful too if mutual friends and family see you in circulation, looking great and having fun. It’s bound to get back to your ex and will increase her speculation about what she’s left behind.

Anniversaries

We all celebrate anniversaries of many sorts of events, particularly couples. Traditionally, women are a lot better at remembering them than men, but think hard. If you can arrange meetings with your ex, on those very days, maybe even in the very same places, this can be a sure fire winner, an excellent opportunity to re-awaken some great memories and, an added bonus...she will probably get there ahead of you.

The life and soul of the party

When you’re with your ex, show her that you are still a fun person. Don’t be miserable, don’t try to play the sympathy card. By being vibrant and full of fun and energy, you achieve two things. Firstly, you take away any pressure and feelings of guilt she may otherwise feel when she meets you. Secondly, she’ll see first hand that you’re still enjoying life and this can start her thinking about how much she used to enjoy having you around.

Remain focused, and stay positive. If you lead the way, albeit subtly in remembering the good times, it will steer her into the same vein of thought, and who knows…it may well get you back together again.

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