Love Letter to Boyfriends: 5 Themes By Susan Willis At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

Writing a love letter to boyfriends can be a great way to strengthen your relationship through the expression of your love and affection. But, when it comes to putting pen to paper, most of us get immediate writer's block. After all, it's not easy to express your deepest feelings on paper to the one you care about most!

The biggest source of love letter writer's block is, of course, deciding what exactly you will write about. To help ease your frustration and catapult you right past your writer's block, I have put together 5 sure-fire themes to use as the basis for your love letter to him. So, choose one of these themes, spend a bit of time putting your thoughts down on paper, and you can't go wrong: he will be putty in your hands.

Here are the 5 themes to choose from for your love letter:

1. I can't live without you

The "I can't live without you" letter needs to be approached in a subtle and sophisticated way. After all, you definitely want to avoid coming across as being too clingy or needy - for this is an immediate turn-off for 99% of men. However, I have never met a man that didn't like to feel that he was needed - even very-much needed.

To write a letter with this theme, you may not ever end up writing the words "I can't live without you." Rather, the message will come across more subtly by the way you write the letter. Focus your message on all of the ways you mean something to him and how important a part of your life he has become. Tell him that you don't know what you would do if he were ever to be out of your life. Hint: throw in a dash of independent-sounding phrases now and again, just to avoid the needy-clingy vibe.

2. You are the greatest thing that has ever happened to me

This is similar to the above theme, but with more of a focus on him than you. All men (all people, for that matter) love to hear how wonderful they are. Your man is no exception. So, start by thinking of the 2 or 3 most appealing and admirable (or attractive) things about your boyfriend. Then, write about those qualities, commenting on how lucky you feel to have found those qualities in him. A letter written with this theme is sure to strike a positive chord in his heartstrings.

3. I find you extremely attractive

For this theme to work, your comments need to remain genuine. So, for example, if your boyfriend is only mildly handsome or even rather plain-looking, then focus your attention on the attractiveness of one of his other features - like his powerful arms or his strong hands. Keep your compliments honest and they will resonate all the more with him.

4. You have changed my life for the better

This theme plays on the part of your boyfriend that wants to have a positive effect on your life. He wants to matter to you, so let him know how he has influenced your life in positive ways. For example, maybe you admire his love of reading, or the way he stands up to injustices. Whatever it is - think of those traits that you admire in your boyfriend and that you have therefore tried to emulate out of that admiration. Show him how knowing him has changed your life for the better. He will be flattered and end up feeling closer to you.

5. You get me excited

This theme is always a winner. While you should avoid coming on too strong in your letter in a sexual manner, let him know how much just being around him turns you on. Focus on the feelings of physical attraction you harbor for your boyfriend and on how excited you get when the two of you are together. No man will tire of hearing these words.

Choose one of these 5 themes for your love letter to your boyfriend. Your letter is sure to speak to him in a way that will win over his heart.

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