Here's How to Finally Get That Ex to Return Your Phone Calls

Okay, so you're having a little problem getting that certain someone to return your emails or phone calls or text messages and it's driving you crazy! Don't you wish that there were some sort of 'magic' that, if you spoke them, would have your ex actually return your calls? Sounds hard to believe, but, there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell on your ex and make them feel almost obligated to return your call.

And how sweet is that?...

And you're not alone! I have over 35,000 subscribers and this topic is always at the top from the folks that just want to put their lives and relationships back together. Today, you and I are going to share a little 'secret'.

Today, I'm going to share with you the 'secret' answer to..."They just won't return my whatever (email, phone call,etc.)"

BUT...

WARNING!

Now, you need to be very careful using this one technique because you don't want to ruin any chances of rebuilding the relationship. And if you don't have a 'complete' strategy in place they may NEVER return your phone call. There are resources available that can walk you through the steps of a successful plan or strategy.

NEVER Say the Following!

Now, before we sail into the actual words to use, let's review the type of message that will NEVER work and almost always puts you in a TERRIBLE 'psychological' frame of mind. And they usually fall into 2 categories.

The BEG - It kinda goes like this: "Jack, please, please call me. This is the 10th time I have called. I NEED to talk to you." (Yuck)

And then there's the URGENT!!!- "Donna, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this." (Puhleez)

Kinda obvious what's wrong with those, right? They stink with desperation! Nuff said.

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage

What we need to employ are the two MOST powerful traits in human psychology. Namely, they are: Curiousness and Self-Interest.

And here's the BIG SECRET! Either of them alone are strong, but, when paired together they're practically unstoppable.

So...

Let's see if we can use these two tools to our advantage and come up with something that will work nearly EVERY time it's used, shall we? Using a soothing, nice tone of voice you would want to say something like this:

"Hi Jack. It's Donna. I just thought I'd let you know how grateful I am for what you did for me. I'd like to thank you personally, so give me a call." See the difference? Do you see what's happening here as we use BOTH of our 'secret' tools? Jack's going to HAVE to call because he won't be able to resist thinking "What did I do?" "What's she grateful for?" AND it's creating a positive message and he'll feel good!

Now...

Obviously, you'll need to do a little bit of 'set-up' before making the real call. It's no big deal you just have to figure out what he/she did that made you grateful. It needs to be something real, but, it doesn't have to be anything big. Some little thing will work just fine.

But, PLEASE, one more time...

2nd WARNING!

Please make sure that BEFORE you call you have a strong strategy in place. Because if you use this technique without a strategy or plan and, they call you back, you may do more damage if you aren't prepared to handle it the right way!

Okay?

So, in essence, what I'm telling you is that it's WAY more important what happens around the call (before, during and after) than it is just getting them to RETURN your call. Doesn't that make sense?

For more information about strategies and plans see my resource box at the below.

Here's to You,
T Dub