What is This Ashley Madison?

"Life is short, have an affair" I thought I was hearing things when the radio blurted out that line. On-Line at Ashley Madison the voice said , "guaranteed to have an affair or your money back". I thought it was some kind of a spoof, or something. Some shock jock looking for ratings. I remember thinking this can't be real. There's no such thing as affairs so blatantly out in the open. This left such an impression on me I found myself going to the Ashley Madison website.

I Could Not Believe What I Saw

I could not believe how many men and women post their pictures and describe what they want from a partner sexually. For $50-$150-00 you can buy credits that will allow you to email anyone you would like to hook up with. I didn't realize how many people were that unhappy in their marriage and were turning to affairs. This was really hitting home to me because I too was suspicious of my partner as well. Right there I knew I had to find out for sure.

Sometimes We Choose To Ignore

I didn't know where to start to find out if my spouse was cheating. I started doing some research and was shocked to learn some of the statistics.

Did You Know?

75% of All Relationships Are Affected By Infidelity

22% of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives. 14% of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives. 70% of married women and 54% of married men did not know of their spouses' extramarital activity.

22% of men and 14% of women admitted to having sexual relations outside their marriage sometime in their past.

10-20% of spouse's cheating begins as internet affairs in chat rooms.

75% of adulterers are middle-class wage earners.

99.9% deny they are having an affair and hide the truth.

17% of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity.

I was now even more determined to find out if my suspicions would turn out to be my worst nightmare. I continued my research and began to realize that there were many signs to look for that are key indicators if your spouse is cheating.

I was reading blogs, and articles, I even bought a book Is Your Spouse Cheating Spouse, but I still was not sure how to find out if my spouse was cheating without them realizing I was suspicious. I realized if they knew I was suspicious I might never find out for sure. Just about then I came across a blog for people recovering from affairs. There was this one woman who kept praising this Program she bought online that she said helped her find out that her husband was cheating on her for several years.

She praised this Program so much saying how it taught her the signs to look for, how to check his phone for text messages even if he deletes them, how to spot the dirty tricks they use to cover their trail. She said she even learned how to get biological proof, and how to use some spy gadgets.

I Realized It Was Time

I of course check out this Program she said help her uncover the truth. That's when I realized this might help me too gain the Truth. And It Did.

That is why I was so compelled to write my story, to kind of give back, as the lady in that blog did for me. He was cheating, and we are trying to work through it.

Best Wishes,