Compatible Match - Dealing With Unrequited Love By John Smithe At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

You’ve loved this person forever and you have always thought deep in your heart that he or she was the compatible match for you. You had no doubt that you would someday end up together in a long-term commitment because you had the chance to find a love together. However, those dream never turned into a reality and you are the victim of unrequited love. This person of your dreams does not reciprocate your heartfelt feelings.

How do you learn to deal with unrequited love? Most likely you’ve known this person for a long time and have been friends and gotten to form a bond. You know what type of personality this person has and you’ve seen his or her character traits and no matter what failings this person has, you have grown to love him or her unconditionally. This is not some run of the mill type of love. This is a truly deep forever kind of love that you have for this special person. The only problem is that this person does not have the same feelings of love for you.

Let’s go with the scenario that you have already confessed your love to this person and was rejected with the words that this person just wants to be friends with you. It’s hard, but you care about this person so much that you are trying to remain just friends and you still spend time together. Having to spend time together in a platonic relationship is going to be a difficult task for you; it may not be such a healthy option for you either. Since you are still spending time with this person, even though just as friends, you will continue to have feelings of loving affection for this person. This is not necessarily a bad thing, but it is not good if you know that you definitely do not have a serious romantic future with this person. Why would you torture yourself with spending time with this person when you can never have more than a platonic relationship with him or her.

It’s not a bad thing to spend time in a friendship with this person, but you really need to think about having some solid time apart from each other so that the healing process can begin. It’s clear that you do want to be involved in a mature dating relationship with someone, but you can not have this type of relationship with this person and you can not get this either with another person until you get some space and heal completely from this unrequited love. Basically, you need to break off your contact with this person in order to get some breathing room to prepare yourself to overcome the pain and loss and work on preparing for the future. If you take some alone time to work on the healing process and find yourself again, you will have success in the future of finding a love with a compatible match. When you find this love and are in the mature dating relationship that you truly are seeking, it’s possible that you and your new partner can be friends with the person with whom you had this unrequited love.

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