Confidence 101 : The Pick Up Test By Gregory Frost At Isnare.com Ezine Articles

Some might say that bars is not the ideal place that you should be picking up women, because of the alcohol and the lights and the music. In a sense, it is not really a place where you can strike up a good conversation and get to know someone else. What we cannot avoid is the fact that most people do actually try to pick up other women in bars, and this is because women look really good in bars. This is the time when they are dressing up, putting on their Saturday night best.

There are two reasons why women actually look good in bars and clubs, and the first reason is because there are other women around. In the age old mating game of the peacocks, it is always about who has the most beautiful feathers, and in the club, it is quite the same thing. Consciously or sub consciously, it is always the case that there are in competition with other women, whether they like to admit it or not. When there are other women around, it is always the case where they will try to out do each other in their dressing.

This is why labels are around, and women spend thousands of dollars a year on their apparel. This sort of retail therapy is the reason why that women dress good and dress real good in clubs. The other reason is because they are also trying to attract men. So this is why it is kind of confusing for the male gender. Here they are dressed to kill and attract, but they have the disposition where they are sometimes unapproachable. It is like placing the honey comb within a steel electrified fence and you are the mating bee, buzzing along the club looking to get at some of the sweet nectar. But of course, they are so stolid and unapproachable because they need to be able to choose and drive away unwanted attention.

So how then do you talk to them and when is a good time for you to do so? Well, the first thing you need to do is to get some eye contact. This is really one of the more important aspects of talking to women in bars. Do not send them a drink via a waiter or the bartender. You are not Frank Sinatra. What you need to do is to look at them and smile, and see if they smile back. If they have a half smile, then you need to work harder, but you are in the game. No pick up lines. Go and be as natural as you can. Do not buy them a drink, because they might get offended that you think they cannot get their own. Women are feisty like that. Work up to it and never rush. Also, look out for the boyfriend (if they have one) because that would be an embarrassing and sometimes even painful situation to be in when trying to pick up women.

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