Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You

Not every break up is permanent, and couples reconcile each and every day. If you had a good relationship that went bad before it's time, fixing it might be your best option. But how do you know if your ex is still game? Are there signs your ex boyfriend still loves you? Before you make a move toward getting your boyfriend back, you need to recognize the bigger signals that he's willing to date you again.

No matter how you broke up or how long ago it was, you can always tell whether or not your ex still loves you. Whether he likes it or not, your exboyfriend will give off signs and signals that he wants you back - whether these be outward, obvious signs or more subtle and subconscious ones. He won't be able to help it... it's just human nature. So it's up to you to read your ex's emotions, words, and body language in order to know how he feels toward seeing you again.

Now if you're trying to win back your ex? Recognizing these signals and acting upon them can really accelerate the process of getting back together. That makes reading your exboyfriend's feelings for you doubly important, so pay close attention here to the following signs:

*** Your Exboyfriend Stays In Touch ***

After breaking up with a girl, any guy who's no longer interested will walk away. He won't look back, try to remain friends, or keep in touch for any length of time... he doesn't want to lead you on, or think you have a chance of getting back together with him. That being said, whenever a guy keeps in touch with you after the break up, it's a very good sign. It means he values what you had enough not to let go of it completely. He's not 100% over you yet, so he's keeping you around on some level. He may not want you back right now, but he wants to know that the possibility is still there. For this reason, you should be very aware of his feelings and emotions toward you, as these might be signs your ex boyfriend still loves you. On some level, anyway.

*** Your Exboyfriend Calls or Writes You ***

Constant communication after the break up is one thing, but if your ex dropped out of sight for a while and then calls you right out of the blue? It's a definite sign of interest. Any guy who goes out of his way to call or send you an email or text message after having been away for a long time has some sort of ulterior motive in mind. Either he wants to see you, or he wants to feel you out - find out your own situation - see if you're dating someone else already or if you're still single. He's not just calling to "say hello" or to see how you are (as much as he says he is). In this case he's calling to reconnect, and possible set up some sort of physical meeting.

*** Your Exboyfriend Stops By To See You ***

One of the biggest signs your ex boyfriend still loves you is when he just shows up from out of nowhere. He didn't call, he didn't write... he stopped by your home or job because he physically needed to see. Your ex wanting a face-to-face meeting is a big signal that he might be digging you again, so if you've been trying to win back your exboyfriend you need to ride with it. Give him the green light and let him know that you're happy he showed up, even if it was at an awkward time. It was probably tough for him to get up enough courage to see you, so make sure you make him comfortable about it if you want him back.

*** Your Exboyfriend Wants to Meet Up With You ***

Now if your ex boyfriend wants to see you, you need to be wary. While it's great to see him again - especially if you want him back - you don't want him dropping by for the wrong reasons. Sleeping with your ex in the hopes that he'll take you back almost always leads to heartache, and the bitter feeling of being used. Make sure your ex isn't dialing you up as a booty call, and seems legitimately interested in meeting with you for all the right reasons.

The first time you see your ex boyfriend after the break up, you'll want to keep it short and sweet. Pick a lunch house or coffee shop, so the date can't go on for too long. Try to talk about fun things, and generally just catch up with each other. Now's not the time to talk about your relationship, bring up the break up, or any of those heavy, serious subjects. Concentrate more on getting reconnected, and keeping things light, casual, and totally positive. If your ex boyfriend still loves you, there will be signs of flirtation, close body language, and other indications that he's been thinking about you romantically again.

If you happen to be at the point where you want your boyfriend back but he hasn't contacted you yet, don't panic. There are some great ways of getting him to call and see you again, and all of these can be managed with positive results. By taking a *step by step* approach to winning him back, you can put together a plan of action that will result in success. Making your ex want you again can actually be pretty easy, with a little bit of time and patience.