http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Ab+Van+Deemter Self Help Ab Van Deemter Fri, 11 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=123176&ca=Self+Help Most motivational coaches or mentors stimulate us to dream as big as possible to reach a goal in our lives. This may work well for confident people who are used to manifesting whatever it is that they want to manifest, but for the great majority of us, however, this is not the way it usually works.... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Fri, 11 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=123206&ca=Self+Help Do you easily manage to say “No” to someone who wants a favour from you, while deep inside you feel you want to refuse? Or do you, like I used to do for quite some time, roll across your feeling with a bulldozer and say: “Yes, of course …..”, because you feel uncomfortable saying “No”. If you are pr... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Mon, 24 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=114808&ca=Self+Help Everything around us is energy. Our universe, the planet we are living on, everything that lives on our planet, the chair we are sitting on, the clothes we are wearing, the glass we are drinking from, the substance that’s in the glass, the car we are driving, the people we meet; in short, everything... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Mon, 03 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=106137&ca=Self+Help Looking at your life over the past year does not make you feel very happy. Actually your life does not look so great lately. At work you have this colleague, who seemed a real colleague at first, but has become pure competition now and he or she bootlicks your boss, who even seems to like that. You... Leadership Ab Van Deemter Wed, 29 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=104486&ca=Leadership Whether at work or at home, often we get frustrated, because things don’t seem to be happening the way we want them to. We see staff or family members aimlessly drifting around and nothing gets done. It is as if our goals remain just that: goals. Well, maybe that is the moment to stand up and do som... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Wed, 29 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=108426&ca=Self+Help Most of us live an unconscious life. The majority of people still thinks that life and the things that take place in it, just befalls them. When we just react unconsciously to what happens in our lives we tend to stay stuck in our current condition and this is exactly the reason why our lives never... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Wed, 29 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=110783&ca=Self+Help It’s not easy to grow spiritually in our today’s modern world, where everything seems to boil down to money, power and influence. Over the last decades more and more did we get used to focussing our attention on physical needs and wants. Extensively helped by our society, the media, television, maga... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Fri, 24 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=92202&ca=Self+Help Before I started to walk the path I am walking today, I had certain ideas about what Power is. My definition of Power was: being measured by the amount of money I had. After all in today’s world we are generally measured by our place in society and by the people that we know. Power to me was the abi... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Fri, 24 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=92236&ca=Self+Help Many of us still don’t realize that we can be in control of our thinking processes; that in most cases we can be the boss over how we want to think. Because of frustrations about our challenges and our frequent feeling of being overwhelmed, many of us have developed incredibly negative thinking patt... Self Help Ab Van Deemter Fri, 24 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=93838&ca=Self+Help Have you ever had this strong feeling that something was going to happen and that very much to your surprise this hunch became reality somewhat later? That’s what we call intuition. Intuition is to feel strongly about something, without having the logical explanation for it. It is understanding with...