http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Brenda+Shoshanna Self Help Brenda Shoshanna Sat, 14 Jan 2012 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=692133&ca=Self+Help In the midst of our lives, hungry, thirsty and often weary, there comes a moment when we stop and wonder, “Is this all there is? Is there another way to live my life that will bring the joy and contentment that eludes me?” Caught in the circles and patterns of our lives, each of us has an intuition... Self Help Brenda Shoshanna Sat, 01 Oct 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=591722&ca=Self+Help So often we live our lives pretending to be someone we aren't. We play games, adopt roles, try to impress others and forget to really express the truth of who we are. As we live this, not only do we deceive others, inadvertently we deceive ourselves. We begin to forget the truth of our own lives and... Self Help Brenda Shoshanna Mon, 26 Sep 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=587887&ca=Self+Help Most of us spend our lives seeking and struggling to find that which will bring meaning and wholeness to our lives. Searching on the highways and byways, most of that which we find, soon loses value. Perhaps it is because we search in the wrong way and for the wrong reason. Then the time comes to Tu... Self Help Brenda Shoshanna Sun, 25 Sep 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=586579&ca=Self+Help There are many ways that fear stops us from moving forward easily. We often become unable to take action due to fear of making mistakes. However, there’s nothing wrong with mistakes. Mistakes are your friend. You cannot get up if you do not fall down. No child would ever walk if he feared falling do... Relationships Brenda Shoshanna Fri, 19 Aug 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=558374&ca=Relationships Fear is a great factor in relationships. It confuses our mind, undermines our confidence and prevents us from making choices that would be healthy for all concerned. A great source of fear is rejection by others. Not aware that we have rejected ourselves, we become overly hungry for the approval of... Relationships Brenda Shoshanna Thu, 28 Jul 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=542391&ca=Relationships Today fear is rampant in all areas of our lives. There are many ways we seek safe harbor, a place to feel protected and cared for. Many turn to relationships for this comfort. Then, an odd thing happens, the relationship itself causes fear. What makes this happen? How do we build fearless relationsh... Self Help Brenda Shoshanna Fri, 19 Feb 2010 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=486938&ca=Self+Help All times of loneliness, confusion and restlessness come for a powerful reason—so we can stop our usual way of being in order to discover where true strength, connection and understanding lay. These difficult times are actually a gift, removing us from preoccupation with that which is not important... Advice Brenda Shoshanna Wed, 02 Dec 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=450111&ca=Advice Whatever we are in life, we bring to our relationships. When a relationship begins we may expect to get our needs met, feeling that everything will work out just the way we want it to. Nothing can be further from the truth. We have been programmed to believe that if we get what we want, we are a suc... Advice Brenda Shoshanna Thu, 17 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=413288&ca=Advice We have been given a magical power - the words we speak. Most use this power carelessly or unconsciously. They are not aware of the enormous consequences of what they say. Most people don’t realize the power of the words they speak and the words they listen to. Much speech arises compulsively and un... Religion Brenda Shoshanna Wed, 09 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=408793&ca=Religion In order to make peace in the world it's a good idea to start a little closer in our own families. The family is the core upon which the world is built and the home is the sanctuary. The family is the place where we are taught to share, love, and grow into the person we are meant to be. It is a plac...