http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Carl+Buchheit Self Help Carl Buchheit Mon, 07 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=407623&ca=Self+Help Note: These are transcripts of QandA sessions lead by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin. They have been edited for clarity. How do you help a client tolerate their fear when they are experiencing past pain? In this discussion, Carl describes useful re-imprinting techniques upon being asked abou... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 04 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=406203&ca=Self+Help by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded in 2008 Question: I really enjoyed the last newsletter “When Reality Gets Ahead of Identity - When You Make Wonderful Changes and Feel Worse Than Ever”, the question comes out of that article … at the very en... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 04 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=406208&ca=Self+Help NLP is always about having more choices more freely available. At NLP Marin, we regard just about everything that people do that they do not want to be doing as expressions of old, out-of-date safety patterning. How much easier and more satisfying would it be, to be human, if our out-of-date pattern... Opinions Carl Buchheit Thu, 03 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=407220&ca=Opinions by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded and first published in 2009 The “worst belief in the world” is: “The most dangerous thing I can do is assume that I am safe,” or, “It’s bad if I think things are going to be good.” There are many variations:... Self Help Carl Buchheit Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=405173&ca=Self+Help by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded and first published in 2008 Ready to take on the New Year? Looking for some inspiration? Or are you reluctant to consider New Year’s resolutions? Carl responds to questions about resolutions, and how they can... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 28 Aug 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=309175&ca=Self+Help Part the First Marin-style NLP has always been something that is difficult to characterize, especially when it comes to explaining how it is different. It has much in common with conventional NLP, yet it is tremendously not-like-that at the same time. So, from time to time I would like to share a li... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 28 Aug 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=403620&ca=Self+Help Question: In your 30 years’ experience working with people, have you seen any common themes that cause people to struggle with eating properly? Carl: Of all the things that human beings can reach for when they’re looking for something to change their state or feel better, or adjust their experience... Self Help Carl Buchheit Thu, 27 Aug 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=404391&ca=Self+Help by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded and first published in 2009 Carl responds to questions by students. Note: The following transcript is edited for clarity. Student: I know [that there is a] distinction between highly valued states and baselin... Self Help Carl Buchheit Thu, 27 Aug 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=404426&ca=Self+Help by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded and first published in 2009 Carl responds to questions about resolutions, and how they can be seen and used in a new way for effective personal change and growth. Check out our previous Open Frame: “Why New Y... Advice Carl Buchheit Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=403953&ca=Advice If there is such a thing as dark personal magic, then “malicious compliance” is surely one of its best and worst manifestations. Intended as an equalizer and liberator, malicious compliance traps the malicious complier in a conflicted cycle of self-damaging, self-diminishing vengeance-that-is-suppos...