http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Carl+Buchheit Self Help Carl Buchheit Thu, 05 Apr 2012 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794335&ca=Self+Help "What is stopping you?" is a question used world-wide in coaching endeavors. It is most often posed in an effort to assist the client to identify the internal and external barriers they are facing as they contemplate making a change in their life. There are several problems with that question when p... Self Help Carl Buchheit Thu, 05 Apr 2012 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794345&ca=Self+Help In the last couple of years I have come to really appreciate these two words: "chreode" and "entelechy." Each word is fabricated from Greek roots. "Chreode"-a very recent invention-was coined in the mid-20th century. The other word, "entelechy," is also a little bit newish, but in a much older kind... Self Help Carl Buchheit Thu, 05 Apr 2012 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794352&ca=Self+Help When I first began learning to do change-work (this was more than thirty years ago now), as I was learning to work with behavioral and belief-related issues both, I was struck by two ever-present, apparently contradictory realities: 1) that personal, conscious choice was the most important factor in... Self Help Carl Buchheit Thu, 05 Apr 2012 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794362&ca=Self+Help Human skulls house a brain which has distinctive parts, some dedicated to reptilian survival, and some apparently directed toward spiritual evolution, namely the pre-frontal cortex. These two purposes can appear to be in conflict and that conflict, or rather that illusion of conflict, seems to cause... Self Help Carl Buchheit Thu, 22 Mar 2012 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1435672&ca=Self+Help All human beings will be and do anything to make sure that their beliefs are true. Anything! We are meaning making beings. This is one of our specialties. Whatever we believe is true will be true, and whatever we believe things mean is what they will mean. Even better, to make sure that we are not w... Self Help Carl Buchheit Mon, 19 Mar 2012 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1419491&ca=Self+Help “Belief Blaster!” “Limitation Annihilator!” “Fear Destroyer”... these are the names of some typical, conventional “NLP change techniques.” The grab bag of these “interventions,” which are mainly patterns that help one part of a person to more successfully defeat (annihilate!...crush! ..exterminate!)... Self Help Carl Buchheit Mon, 19 Mar 2012 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1419506&ca=Self+Help Definition of Panic Attack from Mayo Clinic website: “A panic attack is a sudden episode of intense fear that develops for no apparent reason and triggers severe physical reactions. Panic attacks can be very frightening. When panic attacks occur, you might think you're losing control, having a heart... Advice Carl Buchheit Fri, 02 Mar 2012 00:00:00 -0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1355779&ca=Advice STRUCTURES OF HOPE Hope is simply the capacity to imagine a positive future. Constructive hope is the ability to predict a positive future as a probable outcome of past and present choices and events. Really, really successful hope is the ability to so thoroughly presuppose a positive future that ho... Advice Carl Buchheit Mon, 20 Feb 2012 00:00:00 -0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1325256&ca=Advice Learning about "Anchors and Anchoring" is an essential part of every basic NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) training. Unfortunately, most new students seem to have the idea that creating an anchor is a way of creating change, but this is not the case. Anchors do not cause change, in the sense of d... Self Help Carl Buchheit Mon, 07 Nov 2011 00:00:00 -0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1136228&ca=Self+Help Imagine you are at a lunch buffet that offers you two selections: there's a tray of congealed mystery meat stew (it looks cold and there are some shriveled carrots on top); next to it there's a beautifully presented tray of something you really love, prepared exactly the way you like it. Which do yo...