http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Carl+Buchheit Self Help Carl Buchheit Mon, 07 Nov 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1136228&ca=Self+Help Imagine you are at a lunch buffet that offers you two selections: there's a tray of congealed mystery meat stew (it looks cold and there are some shriveled carrots on top); next to it there's a beautifully presented tray of something you really love, prepared exactly the way you like it. Which do yo... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 29 Apr 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794335&ca=Self+Help "What is stopping you?" is a question used world-wide in coaching endeavors. It is most often posed in an effort to assist the client to identify the internal and external barriers they are facing as they contemplate making a change in their life. There are several problems with that question when p... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 29 Apr 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794345&ca=Self+Help In the last couple of years I have come to really appreciate these two words: "chreode" and "entelechy." Each word is fabricated from Greek roots. "Chreode"-a very recent invention-was coined in the mid-20th century. The other word, "entelechy," is also a little bit newish, but in a much older kind... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 29 Apr 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794352&ca=Self+Help When I first began learning to do change-work (this was more than thirty years ago now), as I was learning to work with behavioral and belief-related issues both, I was struck by two ever-present, apparently contradictory realities: 1) that personal, conscious choice was the most important factor in... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 29 Apr 2011 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=794362&ca=Self+Help Human skulls house a brain which has distinctive parts, some dedicated to reptilian survival, and some apparently directed toward spiritual evolution, namely the pre-frontal cortex. These two purposes can appear to be in conflict and that conflict, or rather that illusion of conflict, seems to cause... Self Help Carl Buchheit Mon, 07 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=407623&ca=Self+Help Note: These are transcripts of QandA sessions lead by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin. They have been edited for clarity. How do you help a client tolerate their fear when they are experiencing past pain? In this discussion, Carl describes useful re-imprinting techniques upon being asked abou... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 04 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=406203&ca=Self+Help by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded in 2008 Question: I really enjoyed the last newsletter “When Reality Gets Ahead of Identity - When You Make Wonderful Changes and Feel Worse Than Ever”, the question comes out of that article … at the very en... Self Help Carl Buchheit Fri, 04 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=406208&ca=Self+Help NLP is always about having more choices more freely available. At NLP Marin, we regard just about everything that people do that they do not want to be doing as expressions of old, out-of-date safety patterning. How much easier and more satisfying would it be, to be human, if our out-of-date pattern... Opinions Carl Buchheit Thu, 03 Sep 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=407220&ca=Opinions by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded and first published in 2009 The “worst belief in the world” is: “The most dangerous thing I can do is assume that I am safe,” or, “It’s bad if I think things are going to be good.” There are many variations:... Self Help Carl Buchheit Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=405173&ca=Self+Help by Carl Buchheit, co-founder of NLP Marin, training director and lead facilitator. Recorded and first published in 2008 Ready to take on the New Year? Looking for some inspiration? Or are you reluctant to consider New Year’s resolutions? Carl responds to questions about resolutions, and how they can...