http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Fatimah+Musa Self Help Fatimah Musa Sat, 22 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=46743&ca=Self+Help Once you forgive, you feel a sense of relief. Accepting his or her weakness. Some fathers or mothers treat their children based on their memories on how they were treated. Some others have been brought up in an environment where they could not model good examples and show affection and love. They th... Self Help Fatimah Musa Sat, 22 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=46744&ca=Self+Help The minute you wake up, you can decide to stay the same or become and have more. Your chances of succeeding depend on you. People around you and in your life can help you or bring you down but the real work starts with you. You are in charge and you can increase your chances to enjoy and experience... Self Help Fatimah Musa Tue, 24 Jan 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=30262&ca=Self+Help I am ashamed to admit this but I used to have the green-eyed monster tailing me wherever I went. It was my shadow and my other half. Of course jealousy justified its presence and suspicions. It was there to protect me. Jealousy kept telling me what I should be doing and feeling. It even told me what... Self Help Fatimah Musa Sun, 15 Jan 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=29014&ca=Self+Help You are actually much more that what you are displaying physically and mentally. Is your life filled with mundane chores, stale relationships, doubts and insecurities? Does your mind tend to gravitate toward negative thoughts and lack? Are your living a life with little sign of advance and growth? H... Self Help Fatimah Musa Fri, 06 Jan 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=26951&ca=Self+Help Have you forgotten what it is you want to become and have? Probably you have made a few attempts, found that your strategies didn’t work and lost yourself along the way. Why not give yourself another chance to realize your goals? It all starts with the goal. Define and describe it. Write down when y... Self Help Fatimah Musa Fri, 30 Dec 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=25801&ca=Self+Help Living a happy and productive life is nothing more that the sum total of many happy days of doing productive activities. It is about creating as many “Now” moments as possible. How to have a happy and productive life. Know exactly what it is that you want. Decide what happiness means to your. Search... Self Help Fatimah Musa Tue, 27 Dec 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=25739&ca=Self+Help Negative emotions sap your energy and undermine your effectiveness. In the negative emotional state, you find the lack of desire to do anything. The mind is filled with thoughts of fear, doubts and insecurities. Your body experiences fatigue, tightness and muscle tension. Notice that your negative e... Self Help Fatimah Musa Wed, 21 Dec 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=24730&ca=Self+Help Many people dread the times when they are left alone. They feel a sense of emptiness or boredom. They start to look out for things to do or people to talk to. Some get into habits like shopping, eating, watching too much television or anything else to "kill the time." Anytime is a good time to obser... Self Help Fatimah Musa Fri, 16 Dec 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=23352&ca=Self+Help Being bored is a state of mind when you are fed up and sick of what’s going on or the lack of activity around you. Complacency also contributes to feeling bored. Boredom becomes a great concern when it results in procrastination, indecision and feeling listless and jaded. The best way to avoid feeli... Relationships Fatimah Musa Fri, 16 Dec 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=23617&ca=Relationships Relationship problems either with your spouse, family, business partners or other people affect your personal growth, success and well being. If you value your relationship, you need to make better decisions and take specific actions to make them work. Here are some ideas to help you avoid or solve...