http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=J.+Alanis Dating J. Alanis Wed, 22 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=372738&ca=Dating If This Surprises You About Dating, You’re In Big Trouble A get a lot of correspondence from guys that goes something like this: “I met this woman, we hit it off so I asked her out- and I was surprised when she said yes!” What usually follows this is a story about the woman flaking, or a question as... Dating J. Alanis Sun, 19 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=371473&ca=Dating What Women Really Want! Have you ever had a woman say to you “let’s just be friends,” or “I’m not ready to date” or just plain ignore your phone calls even though you felt things were going “great?” It happens to men all the time, and when it does, we’re left confused, and even a bit pissed off. Why... Dating J. Alanis Sun, 19 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=371475&ca=Dating The Truth About Women And Words In Dating Have you ever had the experience of a woman telling you something, you taking it at face value, only to discover that she meant something else? Pretty frustrating, huh? Why do women do this, why do they want men to “figure them out” instead of just telling t... Dating J. Alanis Sun, 19 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=371476&ca=Dating Back in the bad old days of the Cold War a string of radar stations was established to give the US early warning of a Soviet nuclear attack. It was called the DEW line, and DEW stood for Distant Early Warning. I imagine it still exists in some form or fashion today, but I don’t know what utility it... Dating J. Alanis Sun, 19 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=371477&ca=Dating Do you know what separates the super successful from those who just get by? It’s simple, really: the super successful, whether it’s with money, business, or women, can “see” opportunity that the ordinary guy over looks. Let me give you an example. In the mail order business, most ordinary marketers... Dating J. Alanis Sun, 19 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=371478&ca=Dating A few weeks ago I received an excellent question regarding the now famous (or rather, infamous) Girls Gone Wild videos. This doer wanted to know exactly why women behave that way, and if there was anything to learn from it. Is there anything to learn from watching these videos? Oh my, yes there is—a... Dating J. Alanis Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=370729&ca=Dating The Last Word On Dating “Chemistry” - For Now If you read through any number of women’s online profiles, you’ll see a constant running through them: a desire to feel “chemistry” with a man. Here are a few of my observations and experiences with “chemistry.” First off, “chemistry” is a word that hold... Dating J. Alanis Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=370733&ca=Dating You Are Who You Present Yourself To Be In Dating Most people are worried about what other people think about them. If a guy meets a woman, one of the first things he usually asks himself (unless he’s one of my students) is “what does she think about me? Does she like me? Am I her type?” Most people... Relationships J. Alanis Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=370736&ca=Relationships When a woman says she “needs space” what she’s really saying is, her attraction triggers are no longer flipped in your presence. The truth is, she doesn’t really know how to put into words what’s happened, all she knows is she used to feel one way around you, and now she feels another. It doesn’t ha... Dating J. Alanis Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=370737&ca=Dating I’ve got a pretty good episode for you guys today, one which will help you guys who’ve made poor selections with women in the past. What I’m going to do is teach you how to dis-qualify women who have the potential to wreck your life, before they cause even an ounce of trouble... I have a friend who...