http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Liz+Sumner Advice Liz Sumner Sun, 29 Oct 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=96961&ca=Advice I hate Shoulds. They're evil. They scream at me and shake their fingers. Ought to Have to and Must are just as bad. They make me the opposite of motivated. You SHOULD write another newsletter. You have to! The way I'm wired, the only possible response is, "Oh no I don't." It's part of my genetic cod... Self Help Liz Sumner Wed, 19 Jul 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=63226&ca=Self+Help I’m appreciating used things. I got a great gas barbecue on Freecycle; a practically new John Deere lawnmower for $50; a beautiful Le Creuset cast iron shelf from a friend’s basement, a lovely leather purse from the thrift shop. They feel like blessings. I get all the joy of something new plus an ex...