http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Mali+Livingstone Womens Interest Mali Livingstone Thu, 21 Dec 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=110447&ca=Womens+Interest My mother passed away when I was in my thirties and the menopause was a distant hurdle. So when my time came for this rite of passage she was not there to be consulted. In a kind of mild desperation I turned to a number of older women in a search for surrogate mothering and asked, “How was it for yo...