http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Oscar+Bruce Self Help Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1315&ca=Self+Help Sometimes a dream needs a little help. Even in our social and business relations, the race is not to the swift, but to the verbal - the spellbinding orator - the silver-tongued seducer. As you are reading these words, you are taking part in one of the wonders of the natural world, for you and I belo... Self Help Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1316&ca=Self+Help REMEMBER THE TIME you could not think of anything to say to the person sitting across from you in that little café or across the conference table? You stammered when they looked your way. They smiled at you, but still, there was no way you could reach out ...and you lost yet another chance to make a... Self Help Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1317&ca=Self+Help As the author of personal development publications distributed world wide, I am frequently asked why certain people seem to succeed at practically everything they attempt, while others fail no matter how hard they try. My response is "I definitely can tell you, but you're really not going to like... Relationships Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1318&ca=Relationships The human mind is an innovative hybrid that allows us to anticipate the future - to think big thoughts. That's the good news. However, a growing number of psychologists and behavioral scientists are finding evidence that our brains are hard-wired for mistakes in today social environment, especiall... Relationships Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1319&ca=Relationships Working a room...if only it could be fun...or at least guaranteed productive. I am referring to that mandatory event that requires us to mix and mingle, to meet and greet. Command performance events like a cocktail party, a business dinner, or a charity event can feel stiff and uncomfortable. Very... Self Help Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1320&ca=Self+Help The world at large steals your youthful enthusiasm and unbridled confidence, piece by piece, bit by bit. Friends and relatives throw sand in your dream machine. They've conformed to the pressures to become ordinary, and insist that you do the same. They compromised by downsizing their dreams and res... Self Help Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1321&ca=Self+Help "DEAR Dr. OSCAR. Why does this happen to me? Someone introduces themselves to me. I tell them my name. Then suddenly I realize I can not recall their name." MY RESPONSE... "Simple, you didn't forget their name - you never really heard it in the first place. Your focus was on yourself and not the o... Writing Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1322&ca=Writing Give Your Web Site The Verbal Advantage Have you ever sat down to create that winning ad, publicity release or newsletter and couldn't come up with the right words or phrases? You will never make your fortune until you cure this dialog dilemma. You must enlarge your powers of expression, acquire pre... Relationships Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1324&ca=Relationships He stands back, avoiding holding eye contact or speaking up. His heart beats rapidly, and he is aware of perspiration, and butterflies in the stomach. If you sometimes experience these symptoms in social or business situations you have a lot of company. Now imagine, vividly, a new book in your han... Jobs Oscar Bruce Wed, 09 Mar 2005 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=1325&ca=Jobs If you work for yourself, the odds that you will still be in business in the year 2005 are only 1 in 5. In today's workplace swirling with change, one million people will start a new business this year. The UGLY truth is that 800,000 of those will be out of business in the year 2005. If you work f...