http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Peter+J+Granger Cheating Peter J Granger Wed, 26 Nov 2008 00:00:00 -0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=322530&ca=Cheating I have just done a check on the internet for the number of daily keyword searches using the word 'cheating' and come up with 111,000! Some of these may be other uses of the word but I suspect a large proportion are about cheating within a relationship. This shows just how big this issue is. Cheating... Relationships Peter J Granger Sun, 02 Nov 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=312668&ca=Relationships You may be wondering why I am discussing the financial crisis in a newsletter about relationships! Don’t worry, I have not lost the plot… what is happening at the moment in the world of banking can be related back to some fundamental emotional problems and the way that we try to compensate for these... Relationships Peter J Granger Sun, 21 Sep 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=297744&ca=Relationships There are times when any relationship can lose its excitement and become boring. In the Psychology of Vision model that I use in my work, we recognise the stage of a relationship, aptly called the Dead Zone. I this stage (which can appear repeatedly in a relationship) all the energy and life seems t... Relationships Peter J Granger Wed, 27 Aug 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=288372&ca=Relationships The sad truth is that most of us fall in love for the wrong reason. We bring a partner into our lives to fulfil our need for love, and it is this outward focus that creates all our problems. What we really do is ‘fall in need’, rather than ‘fall in love’. This creates a dependence on our partners –... Relationships Peter J Granger Tue, 05 Aug 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=279528&ca=Relationships In our society we have become obsessed with love. Our films, our books, our plays and our music are full of stories about love – the joy of finding it and the heartache of losing it. We treat it as a commodity, a transient emotion that comes and goes. We are deliriously happy when we find it but suf... Relationships Peter J Granger Thu, 26 Jun 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=266530&ca=Relationships Many people search on my website because their relationship has run into difficulties and they are looking for help or ideas. The truth is that sustaining a successful romantic relationship is one of the hardest things we will ever do in life. After falling in love and the ‘honeymoon’ period, we all... Relationships Peter J Granger Thu, 05 Jun 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=260122&ca=Relationships In my own life I have struggled to let go of people and relationships. I found it incredibly hard to let go of my wife and our family life when my marriage failed. I have learnt a great deal about the nature of love from these experiences. I will therefore focus in this article on the reasons lettin... Relationships Peter J Granger Wed, 21 May 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=255180&ca=Relationships There's been a lot of public interest recently about the Laws of Attraction, 'The Secret' and such things as 'Cosmic Ordering', but what does this actually mean? Can we really bring the things into our life that we desire or dream about? At the core of all these things is the Principle of Receiving... Relationships Peter J Granger Sat, 03 May 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=249923&ca=Relationships In this month’s article I am going to look at how men handle emotions and the impact this has on their relationships. The popularity of John Grays’s book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus speaks of the differences between the sexes when it comes to romance. While men and women do approach love... Relationships Peter J Granger Mon, 07 Apr 2008 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=241561&ca=Relationships Although we may not always realize that we are doing it, we normally place conditions on our happiness. We decide that we will be happy when certain conditions are met in our lives - for instance, we might decide that we must live in a particular type of house in a particular location for us to be t...