http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Rachelle+Disbennett-Lee%2C+PhD Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Fri, 18 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=130440&ca=Self+Help Want is the first step in achieving success. Creating a desire, a want, begins the wheels of success to turn. Sadly enough though "wanting" is not enough. In addition to wanting, you have to believe you can have it. I notice that many people say, "I want" and follow that with "but" and list all the... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=146437&ca=Self+Help No one enjoys failure; however, there is one great thing that comes out of failure, and that is the ability to tell great stories. No one wants to hear about how you woke up one day, tried something new, were a great success and life was wonderful from that moment on. No one can relate to that story... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Tue, 25 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=146435&ca=Self+Help No one likes to be miserable. Well, most people don't like it, anyway. Misery can make life unbearable. However, misery does serve a purpose. When you get through the misery and can take a step back from the situation, you will see that, through the misery, you have developed personal strength, incr... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Mon, 10 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=130438&ca=Self+Help I am amazed at the number of rich, famous and successful people who seemingly forget that the rules the rest of us live by also apply to them. I have a theory that, once a person gets to a certain level of success and wealth, the air becomes very thin up there and her ability to think clearly is imp... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Wed, 29 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=96514&ca=Self+Help Many people are confused with the concept of responsibility. Many of us have confused the concept and believe we can be responsible for the actions, behaviors and thoughts of others. Not possible! You can be responsible to others, but you cannot be responsible for them. One of my on-line university... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Mon, 06 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=84558&ca=Self+Help Adopting a fur child (dog) after the death of Muffassa, my first and most beloved fur child was not my idea. My husband, however, thought getting a companion for Surrobbie, our female Yorkie, was a good idea. We decided to adopt a rescue animal knowing that there would be issues to contend with, but... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Fri, 03 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=105980&ca=Self+Help There is nothing like focus to help you move forward. Although focusing is challenging in this multitasking world, focus is essential to successfully obtaining what you want. To understand the power of focus, think of a flashlight and a laser beam. A flashlight spreads its light over a wide area and... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Mon, 30 Jul 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=105981&ca=Self+Help Life is full of disappointments, anywhere from the grocery store being out of your favorite ice cream to not getting the dream job you wanted. I once heard a speaker say no one has ever died of disappointment. I would assume that is true. However, at the time of a big disappointment it feels like yo... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Thu, 26 Jul 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=96512&ca=Self+Help I find it amusing how many people, programs, and books are out there today that promise to change your life in a second, a minute or as long as a day. Although intriguing as it may sound, changing your life isn't going to happen in a flash. Change takes time, and usually more time than you ever imag... Self Help Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD Mon, 09 Jul 2007 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=96511&ca=Self+Help Worry is one of those things that will pull you down and stop you in your tracks quicker than most anything else. Most things you worry about don't happen, but that doesn't seem to stop anyone from spending time and energy worrying. Worrying ruins the present by bringing in anticipation of possibly...