Articles Written by RedpoleQ From Isnare.com http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=RedpoleQ Without This One Skill, You're Psyching Yourself Out of the Relationships You Want Relationships RedpoleQ Sun, 01 Mar 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=352809&ca=Relationships Self-compassion: the ability to treat oneself kindly in the face of rejection, defeat and other negative events. In learning to be better with women, whether that means in the initial phases, or later on, into the relationship, you're going to make mistakes. I make mistakes. I've made many mistakes... Sub-Communication - The Importance Of The Message Behind The Message Advice RedpoleQ Fri, 27 Feb 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=351876&ca=Advice No matter who you are, your skill at communicating will determine whether you are moving closer to being the mightiest of the mighty or the lowliest of the lowly. In any major city in any part of the world, you can be sure there are two things you do your best to avoid: 1) rats and 2) beggars. It's... The Physical Side of Success With Women Dating RedpoleQ Fri, 20 Feb 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=348797&ca=Dating I hate to break it to you lazy couch potatoes, but being in shape does help. I'm not talking about bulking up and becoming a muscle head or anything like that. And I'm not suggesting you work out to look good, though that's a plus. Sure fitness makes you more physically attractive to women and has p... Draw Women Into Your World by Mastering Your World Dating RedpoleQ Fri, 20 Feb 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=348801&ca=Dating I cannot emphasize enough how important mastering your world is. You MUST be the authority in your world, including and especially your physical world. I'm often amazed at how many guys follow the same route to work and back everyday. They eat at the same three restaurants every week. They go to the... Female Psychology 101 - What You Don't Know About How Women Think is Keeping You Single Dating RedpoleQ Tue, 03 Feb 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=343196&ca=Dating I'm always amazed at how many guys out there don't watch chick flicks. You gotta watch these things. If you want to appeal to women you have to understand why they love "Pretty Woman", "Titanic", "Sex and the City" and every Hugh Grant movie. Most guys can't stand these movies, while most women love... Learning How to Dress to Impress Women? Advice RedpoleQ Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=341399&ca=Advice If you're like me, you were influenced a lot by your mother. Mothers are great. I love mine. And here's the problem. She loves me too. Unconditionally. Unfortunately, that's not how the real world works. That's not how women who aren't your mom work. You have a job, and I bet, that when you went for...