http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Solace+Swanson Self Help Solace Swanson Fri, 08 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=223087&ca=Self+Help Your ego is both inspiring and full of deceit, on the surface it appears to be helping you, it gives you small boosts of gratification when you succeed and that helps keep you going, however on the flip side it is also one of the biggest hindrances you will face in life. You see your ego just wants... Self Help Solace Swanson Fri, 08 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=223088&ca=Self+Help Are you dating women in order to bring them more happiness and joy? Or mainly to bring yourself more happiness and joy? If it's the latter, it's going to be a tough uphill struggle. If perhaps its not for your own happiness and joy, but rather an attempt to satisfy your ego, then you're setting off... Self Help Solace Swanson Fri, 08 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=223090&ca=Self+Help Are you feeling on top of the world right now? Feeling incredibly successful and enjoying life to the max? If the answer is no, I've got something quite shocking to tell you, success isn't going to change that. Its funny that often people equate success to being happy "oh if I had a threesome, then... Dating Solace Swanson Fri, 08 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=223091&ca=Dating I think an entire article needs to be written to address this topic because its something I see guys try and fail at time and time and time again,. It just doesn't seem to be getting into guys heads, all this social preconditioning from the environment is telling us the exact opposite so why should... Dating Solace Swanson Fri, 08 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=223092&ca=Dating When you think about yourself going on the journey to learn to start really getting good with women, what do you think it will be like? Hundreds and hundreds of women, a phone book full of numbers and a constant supply of sex? Finding the 'one' and getting married with kids? Do you see yourself livi... Self Help Solace Swanson Thu, 07 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=222742&ca=Self+Help Fear is a common culprit for most if not all of the problems we as men face with dealing with women. I know you and I both have fears over all the different aspects of pickup, from just walking up and saying those first few words, to getting a girls phone number, kissing a girl, having sex or even k... Dating Solace Swanson Thu, 07 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=222741&ca=Dating Out of all the questions I'm asked this seems to be one of the most prominent, always rearing its head from guys with secret crushes on "this one lady" at work, school or even on the same train as them. Or perhaps they've been seeing someone for a while and are wondering if its the right time to tel... Dating Solace Swanson Thu, 07 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=222739&ca=Dating One of the most important part of dealing with women and becoming the best person you can be is developing your "inner game". Inner game is encompasses a wide variety of things: your mindsets, how you react to think, thought processes, to name a few. You will probably read a lot of things written by... Dating Solace Swanson Thu, 07 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=222738&ca=Dating It’s come to my attention that there seems to be 5 different things that men never seem to *get* about women, unfortunately every single one of these mistakes is holding men back and I’m quite sure there is at least one or two of them stopping you from having incredible success attracting women. 1.... Relationships Solace Swanson Mon, 07 Jan 2008 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=189701&ca=Relationships You're talking to a girl. You want her to be attracted to you. I know! If I'm NICE to her and I show her that I'm a safe comfortable guy to be with, she will like me! Yes that's logical. I'd like to be with a safe comfortable girl. I like it when people give me shit so I'll give her shit. This just...