http://www.isnare.com/?s=author&a=Timothy+Cole Cheating Timothy Cole Fri, 14 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=46548&ca=Cheating There are so many different lists claiming to reveal the telltale signs of a cheating spouse that it is hard to know what to believe. More importantly, the problem with providing such lists is that any specific behavior is always open to more than one interpretation. For instance, does your spouse’s... Society Timothy Cole Thu, 13 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=18049&ca=Society Why do husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, lie to each other? Our romantic relationships are seldom what they seem. We all want a relationship that is built on openness, intimacy, and trust, but the truth is, our relationships do not always work that way. More often than not, our intima... Cheating Timothy Cole Thu, 13 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=18050&ca=Cheating Infidelity is a common problem. In fact, cheating has been a problem throughout recorded history and across cultures. And all the evidence indicates that people struggle with monogamy. Despite our best intentions, close to 50% of all married partners will cheat at some point during a marriage and af... Society Timothy Cole Thu, 13 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=18214&ca=Society Everyone keeps a few secrets from a husband or wife, boyfriend and girlfriend. And people keep their secrets for a lot of reasons. Often people are embarrassed or they are fearful of a partner's hostility or possible rejection. And research shows that it is in one's best interest to keep some things... Cheating Timothy Cole Thu, 13 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=29595&ca=Cheating Why do men and women cheat? And what can be done about it? Infidelity or extramarital affairs have been extensively studied over the past two decades and a lot has been discovered. Unfortunately, most of the evidence indicates being faithful to a single romantic partner is difficult to do. To start... Relationships Timothy Cole Thu, 13 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=30800&ca=Relationships TRUST is hard to earn, but easy to lose. And without TRUST, relationships come apart quickly. Trust is the belief that a partner has your best interest at heart. And it is impossible to have a healthy relationship without trust. Trust is a two-way street. Trust involves telling the truth AND being... Relationships Timothy Cole Thu, 13 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=41954&ca=Relationships Why do people lie, especially to those they love? Lying is a technique that is used to influence, control and manipulate other’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Lying comes naturally, and most of the time, it happens with little awareness, effort, or thought. In fact, children start lying, quite... Cheating Timothy Cole Thu, 13 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=42838&ca=Cheating Detecting deception is more difficult than most people realize. Contrary to popular belief, people give off few, if any, nonverbal cues when lying. For instance, most people believe that breaking eye contact is an indicator of deception. Research, however, does not support this claim. There are no d... Relationships Timothy Cole Tue, 11 Apr 2006 00:00:00 +0800 http://www.isnare.com/?aid=32182&ca=Relationships The loss of trust is a very painful experience. It often involves a lot of hurt, confusion, anger, and sadness. Dealing with these emotions is critical when trying to rebuild trust. When upset, we want our partners to understand our point of view - to understand our feelings and emotions. Understand...