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<title>Why Miscommunication Creates Personal Conflict</title>
<category>Relationships</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=15637&amp;ca=Relationships</link>
<description>Miscommunication is the root of many conflicts. But what exactly causes the conflict when miscommunication is responsible. This article demystifies the miscommunication triangle.If you were to ask me to pick one factor that was responsible for conflict—I’d have to choose miscommunication, hands-dow...</description>
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<title>Don't Sue!! Try Mediation First.</title>
<category>Legal</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=15638&amp;ca=Legal</link>
<description>Should I take them to court? What are my options? Well, lawsuits have their place and function, but in some instances, such as on-going relationships, lawsuits is like trying to remove a fly from a person’s head with a hatchet. I am often asked what are the benefits of resolving a dispute through me...</description>
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<title>The Three Needs That People Have In A Conflict</title>
<category>Relationships</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=15640&amp;ca=Relationships</link>
<description>There are many human needs that people have, but in the context of an interpersonal conflict setting, three obvious ones come to mind. As simple as they are, these three needs are often the cause of unnecessary conflict or the escalation of a small dispute because one of the two parties does not rea...</description>
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<title>How To Give Criticism Without Bruising Egos</title>
<category>Etiquette</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=7874&amp;ca=Etiquette</link>
<description>As responsible employers, parents, and friends, we have an obligation to correct the mistakes of other people in order to enhance their personal success. The task before us is how to correct a deficiency without damaging the delicate ego that can sometimes get in the way. Too often people criticize...</description>
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<title>What Are The Four Types Of Negotiating Outcomes?</title>
<category>Business</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=7865&amp;ca=Business</link>
<description>Negotiating outcomes are the types of results that can happen at the end of a negotiation. All negotiations end up with one out of four possible outcomes: one party wins and the other loses, both parties lose, they get stuck in a stalemate, or both end up winning. Obviously, the goal in a cooperativ...</description>
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<title>How To Communicate Using Space</title>
<category>Advice</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=7868&amp;ca=Advice</link>
<description>What Is Proxemics?The study of the communicative aspects of personal space and territory is called proxemics. Everyone is surrounded by an invisible zone of psychological comfort that follows us everywhere we travel. This protective bubble acts as a buffer zone against unwanted touching and attacks...</description>
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<title>Negotiate Your Way Out Of Debt</title>
<category>Finances</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=7869&amp;ca=Finances</link>
<description>Eliminating your debt is a daunting task. What can you do to get out of debt fast? Believe it or not, negotiation along with proper financial responsibility is your foothold out of the rat race. Learning how to eliminate your debt might be one of the most important life skills that you learn because...</description>
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<title>What Causes Anger?</title>
<category>Self Help</category>
<author>Tristan Loo</author>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2005 00:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
<link>http://www.isnare.com/?aid=7870&amp;ca=Self+Help</link>
<description>Anger is a strong emotion of displeasure caused by some type of grievance that is either real or perceived to be real by a person. The cognitive behavior theory attributes anger to several factors such as past experiences, behavior learned from others, genetic predispositions, and a lack of problem-...</description>
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