Frequently, when I start to work with a new client, they believe that loving their self is selfish Nothing could be further from the truth...

“To love at all is to be vulnerable Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken...

"Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us...

Here I give you details of how the power of mediumship came to one particular individual based in her own words...

In my counseling practice, I often have clients who tend to isolate as a way of protecting against their fears - especially their fears of rejection and engulfment...

What is love They say love makes the world go round...

Is it loving or unloving to be controlling It all depends on your intent, on which part of you is trying to control, and what you are trying to control...

Are you ready to be your own person Are you ready to move beyond neediness and into emotional freedom...

All of us, as we were growing up, learned a myriad of ways to try to have control over getting love, avoiding pain, and feeling safe...

Peter had been working with me on the phone for a number of months He had sought my help because of problems in his relationship with his wife, Anika...

Most women are so upset after a breakup that they forget about getting your ex boyfriend to desire you again...

What does it mean to emotionally heal It means that you know what you are thinking or doing that causes fear, anxiety, depression, guilt, fear, anger, jealousy, and so on, and how to learn from and heal these painful feelings...

On April 1, 2011, Matt Cantor, Newser Staff, posted "As Americans Get More Self-Centered, So Do Lyrics Study finds increasingly narcissistic words in top 10 hits...

We are born with the need to touch and be touched, skin-to-skin If you were not held and touched with love as you were growing up, then this might be a very deep need for you...

From the time we are born, we need validation Loving parents offer consistent validation to their children, validating their feelings, their perceptions, their gifts and talents, their particular form of intelligence, their interests, their kindness, caring, and intuition...

Loving words can be one of the best things a man can have at his disposal when it comes to women If you have a woman you broke up with and you are trying to learn how to win her back, then you need to know how to use loving words...

I am sitting with Bryan at one of my 5-Day Inner Bonding Intensives Bryan is talking about one thing after another, and I cannot follow him at all...

Congratulations You are going to become a father...

I remember the first time I heard that in order to love someone else you first needed to love yourself...

Do you live your life with your heart mostly open or mostly closed Do you spend most of your time protecting against rejection or being taken advantage of, or most of your time open to sharing love with others...

There are two kinds of New Year's Resolutions: 1 What you are going to do to accomplish your goals 2...

"I have an everyday religion that works for me Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line...

"When it is helpful to apologize" asked Patricia, a client of mine, in one of our phone sessions...

Some people believe that it is caring to point out their partner's flaws - that it will help to make that person a better person...

Take a few deep breaths and release the tension from your shoulders Sit straight and close your eyes for a minute and just relax and breathe...

"Honor Thy Father and Thy Mother" But what if your father and mother didn't honor you...

What is life REALLY all about It's all about love...

Take a moment right now to think about your real intention when it comes to love: * Is it most important to you to get someone to love you - to get love...

Are you suddenly unemployed or do you know someone who is I have been there and made the mistake of waiting too long to file for unemployment, thus disqualifying myself...

Step one of giving yourself permission to succeed is find your loving mirrors and safe havens, so this is where we just find them...