Don't ever make mistake by saying how to parent is only a women responsibility. Men have to play their active role in training their children also so this should not be left only for women to perform. From different research and enquiries made,we descorvered that children perform well in everything they do if fathers can contribute their quoter in training their children. Therefore,for children to be well trained and have bright future,both father and mother must join hands together and give them their best.
In this great article,I am giving three sound skills to a father that knows success of his children are his own responsibility.
1. Fathers should not make a mistake by leaving children's homework and some other assignments given to children to their mother alone. No! You as a father know one thing or the other to teach them because you have wealth of experience than these children therefore you must ready to share this with them and you will see that this will help them to perform well in their school activities and some life encounters.so as a father,you have seen,learn,and known more than these children therefore you must be ready to share those things with them in order to avoid some problems in future.
2. A family is an organization,therefore as a leader of the organization, you must have some special skills that will help you to run the affairs of your family successfully. So it is you father of the family that members are expecting to give your best to them.when your family is well organized,trained and cared for,it is your glory everybody in the society will be praising you even your family becomes role model to others when they see good fruits your training is bringing.
Member of your family will be always happy and feel secured when they know you as a protective father.I don't meant some children that are criminals that will be expecting their parents to always protect them whenever they commit.No! A responsible father as a leader of the family must be a solid shield on his children when need arises.and this will always boost children morale.
3. You must be closer to your family.Some fathers lack this skill of parenting,before some fathers come back from work, it was already late all in the name of office work.Some distanced themselves because their wifes are somehow troublesome.Let me tell you, if you distance yourselve to this children,it is you that is going to regret this later because,they will always behave contrary to your wish which is totally srange to them.it is strange to them because you have failed to train your children on your own way.As a father,you must know how your children behave,if they do the way you dislike,you quickly correct them and they will take to it.if they do what you like,you praise them and they will know they have done something good and this will make happy and like to do more.
As a father,you must know when they are crying and know the rason why they do,know when they are happy and know the source of it.all these things must be mastered by the father as a good skill of how to parent.
I am reminding farthers that for these children to be bourn, it takes male and female and when training period also arises, this should not be singlehandedly done.fathers must join hand together with their wifes and give their children their best so that both father and children will have a bright future.
Fatokun Babatunde has been teaching Parents and educators on how to parent in a Positive Way and glory be to Almight God as many have greatly beneffited from his teaching. for you to know and read more about this topic please quickly head to [http://www.firstratefamilypositively.blogspot.com