It is not difficult for you to neglect what you did to attract your ex girlfriend from the get go and you get emotional and do stuff to get back together with your ex girlfriend that absolutely don’t get results. Simply because you usually end up bogged down by the hurt you're feeling after the relationship ends and aren’t thinking rationally. If you're wishing to win back your ex-girlfriend then make certain you don’t make the same blunders otherwise there is a good possibility you will lose your ex permanently. There are actually 4 mistakes which guys usually make, so you never know… you may be making these currently. So read through to be safe or else you may well utterly mess up with your girlfriend.
Mistake #1: Have you been trying to get back your ex girlfriend by giving presents?
If you are sending your ex roses and flowers on a daily basis to prove to her how much you love her then you're making one of the most damaging mistakes. This looks extremely desperate and your ex could get the belief that you're lost without her. When you appear to be very needy and desperate you are only going to drive her away. Give it some thought. She did not hook up with you because she thought clingy and depressed guys were attractive, did she? So you'll have to remain in control. I'm sure you want to get going and improve things but be patient and you will be successful.
Mistake #2: Have you been trying to get back your ex by begging and pleading?
Many men neglect their self-respect and self-worth whenever they are in these kinds of predicaments. They won't stop pleading with their ex to give them another chance simply because they feel like they can't live on without them. If you are continually pleading with her to take you back on the phone and sending needy text messages, you must stop immediately. If you are also telling her things and making promises that you will be different and grow to be a much better guy “for real this time around,” you will need to stop immediately. You are really making the situation tougher for you. She can see through this and she likely has a suspicion that you’re not sincere.
Mistake #3: Are you looking to get back your ex-girlfriend by acting like her personal slave boy?
A lot of guys try and get back together their girlfriends by agreeing to do just about anything she wants him to. They end up listening to every little thing she says to him and try to please her to attempt to convince her to give him a second shot. This is another mistake because you should understand the undeniable fact that this girl is taking advantage of you. After she dumped me, my ex girlfriend once asked me to purchase alcohol for her and her pals (they were only 19 and I was 21 back then).
Mistake #4: Have you been trying to get back your ex by causing her feel bad?
If you have been behaving just like a desperate maniac around her so that she gets back together with you out of guilt, then it is best to just quit. You don’t recognize it but you are not doing anything beneficial to yourself. You have to win your girlfriend back through your love and an authentic sense of attraction not by causing her to feel bad for all the pain you are experiencing. Have some strength and man up.
Keep in mind that you are not likely to go very far by trying to guilt her into giving you another shot. The only real way to get back your ex is if she really wishes to come back. To help that to happen you have to be the same enchanting and fun guy that she fell deeply in love with from the get go.