Women who break up with their men often have a replacement chosen, making it seem impossible to be able to get her back. If you want her back, there's a great chance you can get her back - don't let her new relationship stand in your way! There are psychological strategies that you can utilize to get her back in a short period of time. Don't think that just because she's seeing some other man, she's unavailable.
Rebound relationships rarely last
A rebound relationship is one that starts very soon after a breakup - she gets together with another man in hopes of developing strong enough feelings for him to overpower her strong feelings for you. It's really a dangerous time for her emotionally because she can get confused and hurt - at this point, it's likely that the best thing that can happen to her is that you get her back. Discouraging as it is, you cannot take direct action now - you've got to be patient and let her return to you . . . with a little subtle help from you, of course!
Now isn't the time for stupid moves
This is a critical time, because you're going to be dealing with a lot of emotions and might feel prompted to take drastic action. Whatever it is you think you want to do, think about it and sleep on it, and then reconsider it a day or two later. In most cases, you'll realize it was a stupid idea and you'll be glad you waited. Don't approach her and tell her she's making a mistake by seeing someone so soon after your breakup - in fact, don't approach her or talk to her at all. Give her the respect of leaving her alone for now. The benefit here is that when she starts to realize the mistake she's made, nobody can say that you interfered with her thinking by contacting or and trying to get back together with her. See, her relationship with him has no real foundation, so she'll start comparing what she had with you - a healthy relationship - with what she has with him - a shaky relationship. She'll come to the conclusion pretty quickly that breaking up with you for him was a mistake.
On the one hand . . . and yet, on the other hand . . .
It's inevitable, because even though she's left you physically, she hasn't done so emotionally. So in every moment together with her new man, she's comparing him with you, looking to find in him the qualities that brought her together with you. Hardly anything he does will compare favorably with you in her eyes, which will frustrate him and make it difficult for him to love her.
Never initiate contact with her
She's having a hard time in her new relationship - she feels bad about breaking up with you, she’s comparing her new guy with you and finding him lacking, and so she's confused. She's used to leaning on you when she's confused - but now you can't be there for her because that'll just help her work out her problems in the new relationship. If you want her back, you mustn't be there to help her strengthen a relationship with someone else! So until it's apparent she's ready to come home, stay away from her!
You can win back a girlfriend who leaves you and starts seeing someone else right away. It's a process that takes wisdom and, above all, patience. Using the pointers discussed here, make your plan and follow it carefully, just like the many men who've won their girlfriends back again. Be assured that to accomplish this task requires patience and self-discipline, qualities that may be in short supply because of the emotional turmoil you're also going through as a result of the breakup. Make certain now that this is a woman who's really worth the time and effort you're about to put into getting her back! The emotional difficulties you're having can be smoothed over by realizing that you're just going through a short separation before getting back together, a process that you'll be inspired to stick with every time you see the two of them together.