Every family crisis starts with small things, whether it be a falling out or cheating. A cheating husband in particular should be caught early on so that the situation can be diffused and dealt with as soon as possible. Here are some warning signs that your husband could be cheating on you :
1. Boredom with the Family
If your husband exhibits boredom with things pertaining to your family, it could be a sign that he could be seeing someone else or is in a greater risk of doing so.
2. Decreased Intimacy
If in the past you used to share everything with your husband and then suddenly he seems distanced and clams up when you try to discuss intimate things, it could mean that he has already distanced himself emotionally and mentally from you. Ask whether this is the case and dig for the cause of this estrangement.
Some husbands suddenly lose interest in doing anything with their wives – another testament to an increased estrangement.
3. He Gets Testy at the Mention of Infidelity
Men easily lose their tops whenever they are frustrated about something they seriously want – or want hidden. If you suddenly hint about infidelity, and he is trying his darndest to keep you off the know, then he is sure to blow his top at the mere mention of cheating.
This is one sign that he may be actually hiding something from you – or is trying really hard not to cheat. You will have to look hard into this.
4. He Stays Later At Work
Yes, overtime is a workplace reality. However, if he is spending more time than usual at work and sometimes beyond the usual overtime period, you may have sufficient cause for alarm.
This is doubly true if his credit statement suddenly has entries that are hard to explain or are plain dubious. You should look into these if you feel that there is something he should explain.
When you find these signs strung together, then you might have a husband that is cheating on you. If so, do not jump up and barge in to him with an accusation, seek advice on the proper means to resolving this issue.