A cheating wife can cause much emotional trauma, not to mention the harm it could cause a family. That being said, it is very important that you are able to recognize warning signs of infidelity and cheating while it is early. Only then can there be any resolution to the problem – and that in a way that the relationship and the family are saved.
Here are some signs of wives that cheat. You have to be observant to be able to notice them at all. This problem is especially compounded when you put into consideration the fact that most men are too busy at work to be able to notice subtle trouble at home.
(1) Suspicious Minds
In a normal relationship, most everything that happens around the home can be explained. However, most wives that cheat sometimes forget to cover their tracks and leave clues to something serious that should be given attention.
If you notice the sudden loss of your wife’s clothing or the unexplained presence of contraceptives then you may have to perk your ears further for clues. Sometimes mysterious messages on a phone or mysterious letters can give away an illicit relationship.
While you should not jump the gun with only these clues in hand, they at least tell you that you should at least worry a little bit about what your wife is doing when you are not around.
(2) Lessened Intimacy
If in the past you used to share everything with your wife and then suddenly she seems distanced and clams up when you try to discuss intimate things, it could mean that she has already distanced herself emotionally and mentally from you. Ask whether this is the case and dig for the cause of this estrangement.
Some wives suddenly lose interest in doing anything with their husbands – another testament to an increased sense of estrangement. If you wife is suddenly frigid, then it truly is cause for alarm. However, you may want to consider whether it is also only due to fatigue or hormonal changes in menopausing women.
If your wife suddenly seems uninterested in family oriented things or if they begin to go about their household duties with mechanical disinterest then there could be a problem with her. You should try to sort these issues out immediate so that they do not have to necessarily escalate beyond reasonable proportions.
(3) Decreased Excitement
If your wife is no longer excited to meet you at the door from work or if you have less and less passionate sex, then there may be a problem with your relationship. Although this does not automatically translate into a case of infidelity, it still is cause for alarm.
This kind of problem should be addressed early on so that it does not persist to the point where it is almost without cure. Professional help is greatly advised in such situations.
If you are having trouble with your wife on these accounts, it would be best if you went for expert advice. Again, any of the signs mentioned do not automatically translate into infidelity, but they do indicate the possibility of such.
And in any case, if any of these signs surface, it should be dealt with immediately as the problems underneath these signs could very well lead to relationship problems.